Also Known As: martx Joined: 28 Oct 2016 Location: PH
Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2017 12:22 pm Post subject:
Does anyone have any tips for socializing in real life?
Subject description: I'm trying to improve my real life social skills...
I'm going to school again... (Classes start at June 10, 2017 GMT +8:00)
Does anyone have any tips for socializing in real life?
I'm a really shy person in real life, but I'm skilled in more ways than one...
(You can go part offtopic if you'd like ) _________________ all my posts before 2020 were made by a 13 year-old, forgive these if you see any, thank you QUICK_EDIT
Ask questions and listen, learn about people. You will feel more relaxed around people and then the conversation will flow naturally. Protip, don't talk about yourself too much too. QUICK_EDIT
Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2017 1:32 pm Post subject:
Re: Does anyone have any tips for socializing in real life?
NucleiSplitter wrote:
Does anyone have any tips for socializing in real life?
Ain't got one, don't need none! _________________ One and only developer of the Command & Conquer Dune "C&C D" mod.
m7 wrote:
I tend to release things I create so that assets are never lost to hard drive problems, accidental deletion, or me having to pretend to care about rippers taking things from my project when it is done.
Who needs a life, I said _________________ One and only developer of the Command & Conquer Dune "C&C D" mod.
m7 wrote:
I tend to release things I create so that assets are never lost to hard drive problems, accidental deletion, or me having to pretend to care about rippers taking things from my project when it is done.
Joined: 22 Nov 2010 Location: Iszkaszentgyorgy, Hungary
Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2017 9:18 pm Post subject:
I prefer to be snarky, helpful and energetic. Works quite well at my current workplace. _________________ "If you didn't get angry and mad and frustrated, that means you don't care about the end result, and are doing something wrong." - Greg Kroah-Hartman
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1. Know yourself. When you know yourself better, you'll know what kind of person you could relate to. I use MBTI and Ennegram test to discover my preferences.
"Hey I like this thing."
"Hey, me too!"
Bam, instant friends.
2. There will always be a person like you. It could be a guy, it could be a girl, it could be your teacher... Who knows? Stay open-minded.
3. A shy person huh...
G-E wrote:
Say hello to people, pose oddball question that gets a response, make compliment...
You could always try automated response like a robot. Practice first, until you get comfortable with expressing yourself.
Graion Dilach wrote:
I prefer to be snarky, helpful and energetic. Works quite well at my current workplace.
That's true. This attitute is very good in groupwork, and it's the attitute that principles wants for their students, especially in engineering schools where we are expected to be more people-focused than self-centered.
CCHyper wrote:
Protip, don't talk about yourself too much too.
I have a several friends like that, attention seekers. Needless to say, I don't want to meet anyone of them most of the time.
Note: I'm a Schizoid person, and I prefer to invest my time into doing the things I like rather than focusing on the people around me. Such as modding, watching videos and playing vidyas, to get my inner world well regulated. _________________
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Well, you can be as shy as possible, but once you just ztype up your fear, stand up and do that, what you was scared to do, and when you succeed, everything became much easier. QUICK_EDIT
First thing to do is you must have a strong will to change, what do I mean is a will to socializing with others.
Then introduce yourself, joining conversations that you understand (like same interest, or discussing hot news/study), then try to hangout with them or joining an organization/groups. Sure after you did those, you may developing on socializing.
Two things, never be disappointing and befriend with good guys. _________________
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Also Known As: martx Joined: 28 Oct 2016 Location: PH
Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:53 pm Post subject:
Thanks for your tips too, now I have to get tips on how to be a good class president _________________ all my posts before 2020 were made by a 13 year-old, forgive these if you see any, thank you QUICK_EDIT
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